Instana

- Instrument MongoDB native driver unified topology.
- Add configuration mechanism to disable copying of precompiled add-ons (`INSTANA_COPY_PRECOMPILED_NATIVE_ADDONS=false`).
- Make rebuilding native add-ons via node-gyp an opt-in feature (it is off by default now, use `INSTANA_REBUILD_NATIVE_ADDONS_ON_DEMAND=true` to enable it).

- Improve heuristic to detect npm or yarn.

- Remove `netlinkwrapper` dependency.
- Deprecate reporting uncaught exceptions as incidents and via span/trace. Prints a warning if the feature (which is opt-in) is enabled.

- Avoid false positive warning about instana/core being initialized too late in the presence of other instrumentation packages that need to be loaded before everything else.

- Do not instrument npm or yarn when started via instana/collector/src/immediate (instead, only instrument the child process started by npm start or yarn start).
- Do not instrument npm or yarn on AWS Fargate (instead, only instrument the child process started by npm start or yarn start).
- Do not instrument npm or yarn on Google Cloud Run (instead, only instrument the child process started by npm start or yarn start).

- Depend on exact versions of `instana` packages, not a version range. This makes sure all `instana` packages are updated in sync and it avoids internal packages like `core` being updated while consuming packages like `collector` stay on an older version.