Cfn-lint

Fixes
- Fix rule [E3002](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-python-lint/blob/main/docs/rules.md#E3002) to not fail when looking for lists of objects and using a FindInMap or GetAtt to a custom resource as both could suppliy a list of objects
- Remove rule [E1025](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-python-lint/blob/main/docs/rules.md#E1025) which was duplicative to the more extensive rule E8002
- Fix rule [E3020](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-python-lint/blob/main/docs/rules.md#E3020) to allow for quotes when checking the length
- Add generic exception handling to SAM transforming functions
- Complete redo how we handle arguments to fix issues created when linting multiple files with cfn-lint configurations in the file
- New CloudFormation spec patch to not require CidrBlock on resource type AWS::EC2::NetworkAclEntry
- New updates to AtLeastOne.json definition to require CidrBlock or Ipv6CidrBlock on resource type AWS::EC2::NetworkAclEntry
- A few documentation improvements

CloudFormation Specifications
- Update CloudFormation specs to `169.0.0` (pull [3135](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/3135))
- Support `db2-ae` and `db2-se` RDS engines for `AWS::RDS::DBInstance.Engine` (pull [3139](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/3139))
Fixes
- Safely get `readOnlyProperties` (pull [3141](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/3141))

CloudFormation Specifications
- Update CloudFormation specs to `168.0.0` (pull [3127](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/3127))
- Remove `AWS::RDS::DBCluster` from exclusive checks (pull [3119](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/3119))
Fixes
- When doing a transform pass back FindInMap when resolution failure (pull [3131](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/3131))
- Update deprecated Lambda runtimes (pull [3113](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/3113))

CloudFormation Specifications
- Update CloudFormation specs to `165.0.0` (pull [3092](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/3092))
Fixes
- RDS DB Cluster remove MasterUserPassword from exclusion with MasterUsername (pull [3106](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/3106))
- fix an issue when searching for Ref in tojsonstring (pull [3107](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/3107))

Feature
- Disable and configure certain rules when template is from CDK (pull [2971](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/2971))
CloudFormation Specifications
- Update CloudFormation specs to `163.0.0` (pull [3076](https://github.com/aws-cloudformation/cfn-lint/pull/3076))